"Multi-Parishional" Young Adults -- The Nomads of Parish Life

The times they are a changin' in the way our young adults look at parish boundaries. Here's a view by Julianne Donlon, diocesan adult faith formation director, at attitudes and ministry boundaries for young adults in our parishes today.

According to sociologists William V. D’Antonio, James Davidson, Dean Hoge and Mary Gautier, authors of the book Catholics in America: Their Faith and Their Church (Sheed & Ward), only 24 percent of young adult Catholics attend Mass every week, while 21 percent attend two to three times per month, They also report that 80 percent of young adult Catholics believe they can be a good Catholic without attending Mass weekly. It’s a belief that differentiates them from their parents’ generation.

A positive figure in the midst of all of this gloom is that Catholic young adults have the lowest conversion rate (18%) among all Christian denominations. Unlike their parents’ generation, many of whom enjoyed the cultural support of Irish, Polish, and Italian Catholic neighborhoods, today’s young adults inhabit locales that are far more socially and religiously diverse. Ethan Watters reported in his 2004 book Urban Tribes (Bloomsbury), that college-educated young adults often draw support from close-knit communities of friends—often from diverse religious or non-religious backgrounds—that form during the years between college and married life. Young adults often live, work, share meals, and vacation with these groups, which often function as family for twenty- and thirty-somethings living far from home.

Recently, a friend when asked to name the parish that she was a member of described herself as “multi-parishional”. This was a term that I had never heard before and I asked her why and how she could be a member of multiple parishes. She explained that a certain parish offered a monthly get-together for young adults so she often went there for Adoration and game nights. Across the city, another parish offered evenings of reflection that she enjoyed so she joined that parish for these opportunities. At what she called her “home parish” she is very active as a catechist and is engaged with the parish youth through the religious education program.

At a gathering of young adults I asked many of them if they belonged to multiple parishes and the overwhelming response was yes. In terms of planning and executing young adult ministry in the Diocese, this “multi-parishonal” status presents some obstacles but also opportunities for us to work collaboratively and regionally in order to reach young adults.

The Emerging Models of Pastoral Leadership project, a joint effort of six national Catholic associations funded by the Lilly Endowment, commissioned a survey of Catholic young adults and published the results in the summer of 2008. Here are some strategies that were effective in reaching out to young adults:

Involvement in the Faith.
We can no longer assume young adults will be active in the life of the church. The survey reported that when young people are actively involved in the church, the likelihood that they will consider ministerial roles increases and the likelihood that they will stay connected to the Church increases. Young adults want to feel connected and involved in parish life. Find ways to involve young adults in liturgy, education and evangelization efforts.

Connecting with Young Adults through Technology:
The church needs to find ways to connect with young adults. An important way for parishes to reach young adults is through the use of technology. Parishes need active web sites. Some pastoral leaders record their homilies or classes as podcasts for young adults to listen to when they have time. Many young adults seek information on the faith through websites such as Busted Halo .

There is much cause for hope in our Diocese as groups of “multi-parishional” young adults have come together to reach out to their peers. What is most heartening is how these young adults describe themselves and what they are trying to achieve in their outreach efforts. One young adult group describe themselves as follows:

“We are Catholic young adults and college students in the northeastern Wisconsin area and beyond working together to spread the saving Gospel of Jesus Christ and His One, Holy, Catholic and Apostolic Church in the spirit of John Paul the Great's call to the New Evangelization”.